unit 2 Test Study guide Flashcards

1
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unhealthy relationship

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when one partner tries to exert control and power over the other (physicaly, emotionaly, verbaly etc)

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defense mechanism

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unconcious startagies our minds use to protect itself from anxiety (hides motions: sadness, happiness, anxiety etc)

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represhion

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involuntarily pushing unpleasent feelings out of our mind. but still having affect on our behavior

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4
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regression

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returning to behaviors charectoristic of a younger age

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5
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denial

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unconcious lack of recognition of something that is obvious to others

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projection

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attributing your own feelings or faults to another person or group (blaming)

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suppreshion

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conciously and intentionally pushing unpleasent feelings out of ones mind (ex.due dates)

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rationalization

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making excuses to explain a situation rather than taking responsability for it

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compensation

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making up for ones weakness and mistakes through gift giving, hard work, or extreme effort

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10
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stress

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the reaction of the body and mind to everyday challenges and demands

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stressor

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anything that causes stress ( life situations, biological, personal behavior)

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bodys stress response

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alarm, resistance, and fatigue

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Alarm

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body and mind go into high alert (fight, flight, or freeze)

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14
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resistance

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the body adapts to the rush and reacts to the stressor

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15
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fatigue

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the body feels tired

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16
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managing stress

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get god night sleep, yoga, make time to relax, eat healthy

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17
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avoiding and managing stress

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use refusal skills, plan ahead, think posotively, avoid tobaco, acohal, drugs etc.

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18
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depression

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a mood order that causes a presistant feeling of sadness and loss of intrest

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19
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anxiety

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A feeling of worry, nervousness, and anxiousness in everyday problems

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20
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phobias

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an extreme and irrational fear of a specific object, activety, or situation

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21
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bipolar dissorder

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causes shifts in mood, energy, activity levels, concentration, and the ability to carry out everyday tasks

22
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schizophrenia

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affected the way people interpret reality (delushionns, halucinations)

23
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suicide

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taking ones own life

24
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self harm

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harming your self

25
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empathy

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the ability to understand peoples feelings

26
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sympathy

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the ability to aknoledge another persons feelings

27
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negotiation

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the use of communication and compromise in order to settle a disagrement

28
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conflict resolution

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the method or process of ending a conflict as soon as possible

29
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conflict

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any disagreement, struggle, or fight

30
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causes of conflict

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  1. )power struggles
  2. )personal loyalties
  3. )jelousy and envy
  4. )property disputes
  5. )conflicting additudes and values
  6. )lack of respect
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posotive reflects of conflict

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communication and problem solving skills, shows commitment, strengthens relationship, get along with those who dissagree with you

32
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negative reflects of conflict

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stress, headaches, violence, death, no sleep, anger, fear, fustration, serious injury

33
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responding to conflict

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negotiation, compromise, and mediation

34
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compramise

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finding agreement through communication

35
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mediation

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bringing in a third neutral party to help others resolve their conflict

36
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Peer mediation steps:

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  • introduction(confidential)
  • ground rules- listening, telling the truth
  • hearing both sides(no interuption)
  • exploring solutions
  • wraping it up- contract
37
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types of communication

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Passive, agressive, assertive

38
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passive

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unwilling or unable to express thought or feelings

39
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agressive

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overly forceful, pushy, hostile

40
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assertive

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telling how you feel without hurting others

41
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bullying

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seeking to harm, intimidate or coerce someone precived as vulnerable

42
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violence

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the threatened or actual use of physical force or power to harm another person or damage property

43
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Violence Warning signs

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  • dificulty controlling anger
  • disobeys rules
  • violent artwork or writing
  • talks about weapons
  • makes threats/plans to hurt others
44
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abuse

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the physical, mental, or sexual mistreatment of another

45
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physical abuse

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a pattern of intentionally causind bodily harm or injury to another person

46
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emotional abuse

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a pattern of attaking another persons emotional development and sense of worth

47
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verbal abuse

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the use of words to hurt another

48
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sexual abuse

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a pattern of sexual contact without the others persons consent/ against their will

49
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stalking

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repeadetly following, harrasing, or threatening an indivisual

50
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the cycle of abuse

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stage 1: green, each person is loving, kind, apologetic for any misunderstanding
stage 2: yellow, tenshion builds, abusers behavior becomes more agressive
stage3 3: red, the abuser explodes and harasses his or her partner