Week 3 Flashcards
Authoritarian parenting/educator style
-the adult is in control
-the adult makes all the decisions
-Adults use threats and punishment
-chilsreb must obey
-adults are not warm and responsive
Permissive/uninvolved parenting style
-child makes all decisions
-adults do not set boundaries or intervene in inappropriate behavior
Authoritative parenting syle
-adults and children share control
-chilsreb have choice
- adults are warm, responsive and caring
-adults set reasonable boundaries and limits
What do children learn from authoritarian parenting
-how to follow rules
-to fear authority figures
-to hide their own emotions and opinions
What do children learn from authoritative parenting
-how to think for themselves
-how to problem solve
-how to nurture healthy relationships
What do children learn from permissive parenting
-that they are in charge
Family systems theory(Murray Bowen)
This theory suggests that individuals cannot be understood in isolation from one another
What do people learn from their family system
-how to communicate
-how to express feelings
-how to cope with stress
-how to problem solve
Open families
Open families are generally close and healthy. People feel free, unique and have a sense of community. There is enduring approval among people.
Close families
Are close in a different way. They believe sameness and control keeps people together. In such families people are overly close and often unhealthy
Characteristics of open families
-people are celebrated
-relatuonships are nurtured
-communicaton flows
-rules can be changed
-change is embraced
Relationship triangles
Can be positive or negative
When positive adds extra stability to a two person relationship
When negative adds polarization and toxicity
Roles within a negative relationship triangle
The victim
The rescuer
The prosecutor
Bias
Favouring one thing or group over another
Implicit bias
Automatic and unintentional thoughts and actions based on bias
