Week 3 Flashcards
(18 cards)
Authoritarian parenting/educator style
-the adult is in control
-the adult makes all the decisions
-Adults use threats and punishment
-chilsreb must obey
-adults are not warm and responsive
Permissive/uninvolved parenting style
-child makes all decisions
-adults do not set boundaries or intervene in inappropriate behavior
Authoritative parenting syle
-adults and children share control
-chilsreb have choice
- adults are warm, responsive and caring
-adults set reasonable boundaries and limits
What do children learn from authoritarian parenting
-how to follow rules
-to fear authority figures
-to hide their own emotions and opinions
What do children learn from authoritative parenting
-how to think for themselves
-how to problem solve
-how to nurture healthy relationships
What do children learn from permissive parenting
-that they are in charge
Family systems theory(Murray Bowen)
This theory suggests that individuals cannot be understood in isolation from one another
What do people learn from their family system
-how to communicate
-how to express feelings
-how to cope with stress
-how to problem solve
Open families
Open families are generally close and healthy. People feel free, unique and have a sense of community. There is enduring approval among people.
Close families
Are close in a different way. They believe sameness and control keeps people together. In such families people are overly close and often unhealthy
Characteristics of open families
-people are celebrated
-relatuonships are nurtured
-communicaton flows
-rules can be changed
-change is embraced
Relationship triangles
Can be positive or negative
When positive adds extra stability to a two person relationship
When negative adds polarization and toxicity
Roles within a negative relationship triangle
The victim
The rescuer
The prosecutor
Bias
Favouring one thing or group over another
Implicit bias
Automatic and unintentional thoughts and actions based on bias
Explicit bias
Awareness of one’s own bias and acting purposefully in accordance with ones bias
Where does bias come from
Family
Friends
Culture
Experiences
How to mitigate our bias
Educate yourself
Challenge your own thinking
Engage with others
