Week 3 - The Power of Listening Flashcards

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Listening Blocks

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Mind reading
Rehearsing
Filtering
Judging
Advising
Sparring
Being right
Derailing
Placating
Comparing
Identifying

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Mind reading

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Making assumptions about what people will say

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3
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Rehearsing

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Preparing what you will respond next before your partner has finished talking

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4
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Filtering

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Selective attention, only hearing certain types of information

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Judging

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Holding certain opinions about the other person

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Advising

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Telling people how to fix the problem

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Sparring

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Being argumentative, seeking to convince the other person that your position is better

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Being right

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main focus on being right and cannot permit self to be wrong

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Derailing

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Going off the rails, changing topic, making jokes, interrupting

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Placating

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To agree too much and too quickly

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Comparing

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working out whether the speaker is smarter/better/more powerful than you

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12
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Identifying

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Linking other person’s experience to your own

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13
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Daydreaming

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Being reminded of a memory and drifting away

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14
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Dadirri

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Deep listening - being in a moment of stillness

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15
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Micro-skills

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Clarifying
Probing Questions
Paraphrasing
Summarising
Double Listening

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16
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Clarifying

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Not making assumptions about language and meaning - Checking with the speaker that what is being heard and understood is accurate

17
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Probing questions

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Asking for additional information - elaboration, clarification (open ended questions)

18
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Paraphrasing

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reflecting the essence of the content of the communication to the other in your own words

19
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Summarising

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Ties together several ideas and descriptions of feelings into one statement

20
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Double listening

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Listen for emotions - What can the emotion imply is important to the client