14. Developing behavioural agility Flashcards
4 key roles that a CoSec can play, and needs behavioural agility to fulfil
One-to-one coach
Mentor
Systemic team coach
Board facilitator
What is meant by being a ‘team coach’?
Being a behavioural and relational process expert with a person focus, supporting the board as a team, both as a group of individuals and collectively
Who is the natural holder of the team coach position
Chair
2 reasons why chair may need support (ie. from CoSec) in team coach capacity
- Difficult to both coach and participate in discussions
- Responsibility for performance management can sometimes conflict with effective coaching
Case for coaching as leadership style
Over time (though not initially) empowering leadership styles outperform directive leadership styles in terms of team performance - boardroom context has an extended timeline
Define coaching
Unlocking a person’s potential to maximise their own performance. It is helping them to learn rather than teaching them.
4 recognised core skills / mindsets underpinning the ability to coach
- Building a trusting coaching relationship
- Asking effective questions and listening to/noticing responses
- Supporting effective goal-setting
- Providing effective feedback
How is a successful coaching relationship built?
By spending time treating the coachee as a human being rather than a ‘human doing’ that is simply a cog in completion of a task
- use of empathy and spending time talking to people about what matters to them
& then maintaining a consistently significant quantity of interactions
What should be a coaches default coaching approach?
Asking questions
What should be our baseline percentage of ask-to-tell when coaching?
10% telling, 90% asking
Why should coaches generally ask and not tell? (4)
- Shows belief in coachee’s potential
- Constant telling (directing) sets up uneven parent-child dynamic
- Stimulates deep learning and retention
- Constant telling promotes dependence on coach to solve future problems
Other than paying attention to what a coachee says, what else should a coach notice? (3)
- Tone
- Body language
- What is not mentioned or left unsaid
5 types of questions that should be in a coaches arsenal
Open questions
Closed questions
‘Why’ questions
‘What’ questions
‘How’ questions
Benefit of coach asking open questions
Helps coachee raise awareness of their issue and problem solve themselves
What is the default question type in coaching?
Open questions
Benefit of coach asking closed questions
Useful at certain points, such as when checking on coachee’s thought process, etc.
Overuse of what question type is indicative if directive style?
Closed questions
Benefit of coach asking ‘why’ questions
Useful for opening people up to recognise the reasons for events being as they are
Why should too many ‘why’ questions be avoided?
Can make coachee file a though they are being interrogated
Benefit of coach asking ‘what’ questions
Help coachee explore their current reality in detail
Benefit of coach asking ‘how’ questions
Very useful to move us forward to where we want to go, having already set the scene with ‘what’ questions
What is GROW model?
Useful coaching model to give coaching direction
What does GROW stand for? - with example for each
Goal - what do you want?
Reality - what is currently happening?
Options - what could you do?
Will - what will you do?
Define mentoring
Help by one more experienced person to another person in making significant transitions in knowledge, work or thinking