Chapter 2: Self and Perception (Lesson 12, 13 & 14) Flashcards

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Self-Awareness

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conscious knowledge of one’s character, emotions, values, assumptions, motives, and desired

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What does self awareness allow you to do?

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-see other’s perspectives
-practice self-control
-have pride in yourself
-have general self-esteem

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Ways to increase self-awareness:

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-self-reflection
-introspection
-mindfulness
-meditation

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Challenging Yourseld

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-step beyond your comfort zone and experience new things
-promotes self-discovery and growth

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Self-Concept

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the overall idea of who a person thinks they are (ie. beliefs and values)

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Self-knowledge

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-a dimension of self-concept
-“who am I?”

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Self-expectation

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-a dimension of self-concept
-“who or what do I want to be?”

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Self-evaluation

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-a dimension of self-concept
-“how well do I like myself?”

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Social Self

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-family, friends, coworkers, sports, online presence

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Spiritual Self

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religion, yoga

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Material Self

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heirlooms, mental health

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Subjective Self

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how you describe yourself

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Objective Self

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how others describe you

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Why is “tell me about yourself” not constructive?

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-self-concept is influence by context and personality more than anything

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Reflected Appraisal

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-thoughts from others that feed into our self-concept

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Significant Others

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-those whose reflections we consider essential

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Social Comparisons

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-based on superiority/inferiority and similarity/difference
-how we compare ourselves to other people

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Superiority/Inferiority

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-attractiveness
-intelligence
-athletic ability

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Similarities/Differences

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-age
-personality
-popularity
-interests
-culture

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Self-concept is based on ____, ____, and _____

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attitudes, beliefs, and values

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Attitude

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your immediate disposition toward a concept or an object

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Beliefs

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ideas based on previous experiences and convictions not necessarily logic or fact

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Values

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core concepts and ideas about what we consider good or bad, right or wrong, and what is worth making a sacrifice for

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Self-Esteem

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refers to the judgements and evaluations we make about our self concept

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Self-Efficacy
people's judgments about their ability to perform as task within a specific context
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Self-discrepancy Theory
people have beliefs about and expectations for their actual and potential selves that don't always match up with what they experience
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What makes up self-concept?
the different "selves" such as actual, ideal, and ought
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Actual Self
attributes you or someone else believes you possess
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Ideal Self
attributes you or someone else would like you to possess
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Ought Self
attributes you or someone else believes you should possess
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Actual vs. Own Ideals
we feels we are not obtaining our desires and hope, leading to disappointment, dissatisfaction, and frustration
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Actual vs. Others' Ideals
we have an overall feeling that we are not obtaining others' desires and hopes for us, leads to shame and embarassment
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Actual vs. Others' Ought
we feel we are not meeting what others see as our duties and obligations, leads to agitation and fear of punishment
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Actual vs. Own Ought
we feel we are not meeting our duties and obligations which can lead to feeling we have fallen short of our moral standards
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How do social and family influences shape our self-perception?
-feedback from others -extrinsic motivations -communication patterns (ie. abuse)
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How does culture affect self-perception?
-self-enhancement of our desirable qualities -competition -wealth vs. modesty -race -gender
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How does media influence self-perception?
-unrealistic standards of beauty -shows us what is unacceptable, acceptable, valued in society
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Self-fulfilling Prophecy
occurs when your expectation causes something to happen (ie. hearing about a rude colleague and unintentionally causing a rude reaction from them)
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Self-disclosure
the purposeful disclosure of personal information to another person
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Social Penetration Theory
as we get to know someone we engage in a reciprocal process of self-disclosure
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Social Comparison Theory
we evaluate ourselves based on how we compare with others
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Johari Window
-a model that helps to explain and improve self-awareness and self-communication -uses a four quadrant model to represent aspects of self that are know and unknown to us
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First Quadrant of Johari Window "Open area"
-lower left hand corner -ideas KNOWN to self and others -name, hobbies, etc.
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Second Quadrant of Johari Window "Blind area"
-upper left hand corner -ideas unknown to self but known to others -gained from perception checking and feedback -ie. being a pushover but not knowing it
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Third Quadrant of Johari Window "Unknown area"
-upper right-hand corner -ideas unknown to self and others -have not happened yet so outcome is unknown -ie. how you will cope with the loss of a parent who is still living
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Fourth Quadrant of Johari Window "Hidden area"
-lower right hand corner -known to self but not others -ie. trauma, insecurities, etc.
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What are the four categories of self-disclosure?
-observations (what we have done and experienced) -thoughts -feelings -needs
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Self-disclosure Cycle
individual self discloses, recipient reacts, reaction is processed by discloser
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Techniques for avoiding self-disclosure:
1. deception - lying to avoid conflict 2. equivocate - don't answer question, restate what they said differently 3. hint - indirect or face-saving comments 4. silence
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3 Categories of Impression Management
1. manner 2. appearance 3. setting
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Manner
our words and actions
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Appearance
our clothing, hair, makeup
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Setting
how we decorate homes, offices, cars
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Perception
the process of attending to, organizing, interpreting information via 5 senses
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Attending
1st step of the perception process: selecting the information you want to focus on ie. extreme, different, repeating, motivated, emotional state
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Perceptual Organizing
how we make sense of something in our brain
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4 Schemes used to organize perceptions
1. physical construct 2. social position 3. behaviour 4. emotions
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Interpretation
assign meaning to our experiences using mental schemata
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Factors that Influence Interpretations
-personal experience -involvement -expectations -assumptions -relational satisfaction -past experiences -knowledge
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How do individualistic cultures see self?
-independence -take care of self -flexible group memberships -individual achievement awarded -autonomy, equality
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How do collectivistic cultures see self?
-we; people belong to groups -family before self -belong to permanent groups -group goal contribution -duty, order, hierarchy
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What are the influences of gender?
gender shapes how others communicate with use due to different expectations and acceptable behaviours
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What does low self-esteem look like?
-need positive experiences to counter negative thoughts -views life negatively -unmotivated -unrealistic expectations -poor coping -unhealthy relationships
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What does high self-esteem look like?
-positive thoughts -assertive when expressing needs/opinions -secure and honest relationships -realistic expectations -resilient in coping
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Internal Attributions
connect the cause of behaviours to personal aspects (ie. personality traits)
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External Attributions
connect the cause of behaviours to situational factors
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Self-serving Bias
-a perceptual error through which we attribute the cause of our successes to internal personal factors while attributing our failures to external factors beyond our control
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Primary Effect
-makes first impressions emduring by leading us to place more value on the first information we learn about a person
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Recency Effect
-puts more weight on most recent impressions of a person's communication over earlier impressions
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Physiological Influences of Perception
-senses -age -health -hunger -biological cycles
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Psychological Influences on Perception
-mood -self-concept
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Social Influences on Self-perception
-sex and gender roles -occupational roles -standpoint theory
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Standpoint Theory
states that your perspective is influenced by where you stand
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Halo Effect
occurs when initial positive perceptions lead us to view later interactions as positive
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Horn Effect
occurs when initial negative perceptions lead us to view later interactions as negative
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Self-fulfilling Prophecies
thoughts and action patterns in which a persons's false belief triggers a behaviour that makes something come true
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Prejudice
negative feelings or attitudes toward people based on their identity
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Emotional Intelligence
ability to understand, use, and manage your emotions positively to relieve stress, communicate, overcome challenges and conflict
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Perception Checking
a strategy to help us monitor our reactions to perceptions about people and communications