Domestic Violence

Question 1

Family violence A pattern of behavior within an intimate or family relationship that is used to maintain power and control.<br></br>Family violence encompasses emotional

Answer 1

A pattern of behavior within an intimate or family relationship that is used to maintain power and control.<br></br>Family violence encompasses emotional

financial

The Duluth Model of domestic violence is not “false” in the sense of being fabricated or entirely discredited, but it has been criticized and challenged—especially for being incomplete or ideologically narrow. Whether it’s valid or useful depends on what you’re using it for and how you define “false.” Here’s a breakdown of the debate:

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✅ What the Duluth Model Is

Developed in the 1980s in Duluth, Minnesota, the model:
• Focuses on power and control as the central cause of domestic violence.
• Uses the “Power and Control Wheel” to illustrate patterns of abuse (e.g., intimidation, isolation, male privilege).
• Emphasizes that domestic violence is gendered—typically men using violence to dominate women.
• Was designed to guide batterer intervention programs (BIPs) and coordinated community responses (police, courts, advocates).

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✅ What Supporters Say
• It helped mainstream the idea that domestic violence is systemic and about control, not just isolated acts of anger.
• It shifted blame off victims and emphasized accountability for perpetrators.
• It’s been widely adopted, particularly in courts and advocacy programs.

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❌ What Critics Say
1. Overly Gendered
• Critics argue it assumes men are always the perpetrators and women are always the victims.
• It doesn’t account well for same-sex violence, female abusers, or mutual violence.
2. Lacks Psychological Depth
• The model downplays mental health, substance abuse, and trauma as contributing factors.
• It focuses more on ideology (patriarchy) than on individual psychology or relational dynamics.
3. Effectiveness of BIPs Based on the Duluth Model Is Mixed
• Some meta-analyses suggest little to no effect on recidivism.
• Others argue the implementation quality matters more than the model itself.
4. Ignores Situational Violence
• Research (especially from Michael Johnson) shows that not all domestic violence is about control.
• Many cases are situational couple violence, where conflict escalates but isn’t rooted in coercive control.

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🟨 So Is It “False”?
• Not false like a hoax.
• But incomplete and ideologically driven, yes.
• Useful for understanding some cases of abuse, especially coercive control by men against women.
• Not great for all types of domestic violence, and not a scientific model in the strict sense—it’s more of a framework or philosophy

and/or psychological abuse.

Question 2

Power and control tactics include intimidation

Answer 2

emotional abuse

isolation

minimizing

denying

and blaming

using children

economic abuse

male/gender privilege

coercion and threats

physical violence

and sexual violence

Question 3

Characteristics of a batter Can’t tell

Answer 3

usually charming. But: Jealousy

controlling behavior

unrealstic expectations

quick involvement

isolation

blaming others for problems or feelings

getting angry for every little thing

cruelty to animals

belief in rigid gender roles.

Question 4

The leading cause of injury requiring serious medical attention for women between the ages of 18-49 is…

Answer 4

family violence

Question 5

x% of husbands who frequently assault their wives also abuse their children

Answer 5

50%

Question 6

Barriers to leaving abusive relationship include: fear

Answer 6

financial

children

criminal/civil legal system response

love

religion

isolation

lack of access to resources

immigration status.

Question 7

When are survivors in the biggest danger?

Answer 7

When they leave.

Question 8

Conditions that increase lethality weapons (especially firearms)

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alcohol/drug abuse

abuser is suicidal

abuser has made threats to kill

strangulation

abuser is taking greater risks (has nothing to lose).

Question 9

The presence of a gun in domestic violence situations increases the risk of homicide for women by x%

Answer 9

500%

Question 10

Effects of family violence on survivor can include Emotional withdrawal and low self-esteem

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denial or minimization of the abuse

aggessiveness and anger

apprehension

fear

or helplessness

anxiety

eating or sleeping disorders

depression

suicide

ptsd

death.

Question 11

X% of men who abuse their female partners also abuse their children

Answer 11

50 to 70%

Question 12

x% of children living in homes where there is domestic violence are aware of the violence

Answer 12

80-90%

Question 13

emotional effects of DV on children shame

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guilt

and self blame. Fear of abandonment

expressing emotions. Anger and anxiety. Depression and helplessness.

Question 14

Social effect of DV on children Isolation from firends and relatives

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stormy relationships

difficulty trusting (especially adults)

poor anger management and problem solving skills

excessive social involvement to avoid home

engaged in exploitive relationships as perpetrator or victim.

Question 15

behavioral effects of DV on children Acting out or withdrawing

Answer 15

aggresssive

bullying behavior

passive

refusing to go to school

excessive attention seeking

bedwetting and nightmares

inability to concentrate

dependency

mood swings.

Question 16

childrfen who witness family violence are more likely to be involved in juvenile crimes?

Answer 16

Yes.

Question 17

A person uses abuse to achieve…

Answer 17

power and control over the victim.

Question 18

Does family violence happen regardless of income or education?

Answer 18

Yes

Question 19

Safety plan question examples

Answer 19

What are you already doing to stay safe? What is the most dangerous area in your house? Can you move fights to safer areas of the house? Is there a gun in the house? Is it loaded? Where is the ammunition? Do you have access to it? Can you convince partner to get rid of it? Can you create a go bag?

Question 20

Impact of phone on DV Can become digital leash (stalking

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tracking

observing social media behavior

passwords).

Question 21

how to tell if anger management is root of DV? Ask if they are doing it to people with more power than them. If they aren’t lashing out at their boss

Answer 21

police officers

etc.

then it isn’t an anger management problem.

Question 22

What do abusers prey on?

Answer 22

Vulnerabilities. All types of them.

Question 23

x% of girls between 16 and 18 say sex is expected by their partner

Answer 23

33%

Question 24

Which
would be worse: beating beaten by your partner, or having social services take
away your children?

Answer 24

That’s the choice facing many parents I’ve
worked with as a social worker, and the answer is always the same. “I’d rather
take the beating than catch a CPS case,” as one said to me.</div>

Question 25

It is important to note that a survivor parent’s decision to leave an abusive relationship may leave them without

Answer 25

he financial resources to care for the child and might result in loss of employment, housing, and childcare The survivor parent may stay in the relationship as a protecgtive response, believing that the perpetrator will do more serious harm if the survivor parent tries to leave.

Question 26

Also, the separation of the children from the survivor parent creates more opportunity for the " perpetrator to use the children

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as a tool to manipulate the survivor parent. These thrats can add to other sources of pressure to stay in a domestic violence situation, such as cultural practices or norms, religious pressures, and the desires of the children to return to their home.

Question 27

It is common for the preptrator to use the children to

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control the survivor parent. Perpetrators may threaten to gain sole custody, kill, kidnap, or otherewise harm children if the survivor parent leaves. Services, planning, and hearings should be conducted with the safety and well-being of the children as a primary concern and in the context of domestic violence dynamics.