emotional sensitivity as data Flashcards

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What is the purpose of this drill?

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To train emotional sensitivity as a source of intel—without reacting or performing. Notice emotion, label it, stay sovereign.

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What’s the first step in the drill?

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Notice a signal. Catch the physical or emotional shift the moment it begins.

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What do you say to yourself when you notice emotion?

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‘A signal has arrived.’

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What should you avoid when labeling emotion?

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Avoid identity-based language like ‘I am sad.’ Use detached terms like ‘This is sadness.’

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Examples of emotional data labels?

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‘This is friction.’ ‘This is shame bait.’ ‘This is guilt signal.’ ‘This is status challenge.’

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What comes after labeling the emotion?

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Ask: ‘What does this emotion want me to do—and do I agree?’

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What’s the correct response if the emotion asks for reaction?

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Stay still. No donation. Say: ‘Noted. I remain clear.’

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What is your body doing during this drill?

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Breathing low. Face calm. No emotional tells. Steady eye contact if needed.

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What’s the post-event integration step?

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Record a sentence: ‘Today I observed ___. It tried to evoke ___. I remained still.’

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What’s the Zero Code principle behind this drill?

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Emotion is data, not command. You are the signal processor, not the signal.

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What does ‘emotional donation’ mean in this context?

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Reacting, explaining, over-smiling, or shifting behavior to manage the energy in the room. It gives away power.

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What’s the difference between suppression and stillness?

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Suppression ignores the signal. Stillness acknowledges it, but doesn’t obey it.

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What should you do if someone asks how you’re feeling during a signal?

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Use neutral truth: ‘I’m tracking something, but I’m okay.’ Or: ‘Just noticing a shift—nothing I need help with.’

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What’s a red flag emotion to log silently?

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When you feel guilt that seems unearned, urgency that doesn’t match the moment, or a need to prove something. These are likely manipulation signals.

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What does it mean if you feel nothing during an emotional moment?

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Could be genuine neutrality, or delayed processing. Either way, note it without judgment: ‘Flat signal logged.’

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What does the phrase ‘This is not mine’ mean in the drill?

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Used when you’re picking up on someone else’s emotion or projection. It’s energetic hygiene.

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What if emotion is intense but you don’t want to collapse?

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Name it out loud to yourself in private: ‘This is fear.’ Then say: ‘And I can hold it.’

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What do you do if you start leaking (body shifts, sighing, face twitch)?

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Notice it. Re-ground. No shame. Say internally: ‘Signal detected. Code re-centering.’

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How does emotional data make you stronger?

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It lets you move with precision. You’re no longer reacting—you’re operating with intel.

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How do you end a day with this drill?

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Journal one sentence: ‘Today I stayed clear while _____. My clarity is becoming automatic.’

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What’s the first thing to observe in a group setting?

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Emotional tone of the room. Ask: ‘What is the dominant feeling frequency being broadcast?’

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What does it mean if you feel the need to fix or soothe someone?

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You’re being emotionally recruited. Pause and ask: ‘Is this mine to carry?’

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What is a common energetic trap in therapeutic or compliance environments?
Being praised for vulnerability. It trains you to perform emotional openness for safety or approval.
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How do you use emotional data without becoming emotionally responsible?
Hold awareness without entanglement. Say internally: 'I see the signal. I’m not the system.'
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What do you do when someone mislabels you emotionally?
Pause. Say: 'That’s not quite accurate, but I appreciate the reflection.' No need to explain.
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What’s a clean response when asked to share feelings you don’t feel?
'Nothing’s really moving in me right now.' Or: 'I’m noticing, but not needing to speak on it yet.'
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What if someone gets upset with your calmness?
That’s a regulation mismatch. They’re trying to escalate your energy. Stay steady: 'I'm grounded. That’s where I operate best.'
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How do you stay sovereign during emotionally charged content?
Anchor to your breath, choose your focal point (clock, floor, hand), and log: 'Emotional charge noted. No reaction authorized.'
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What do you say when pressured to process emotion prematurely?
'I process privately and deeply. I’ll speak when it’s integrated.'
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What’s the final phrase to lock in Zero Code mid-interaction?
'Signal received. Code intact. No reaction necessary.'
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What’s the first sign you’re being emotionally pulled in?
A sudden internal shift: tension, a compulsion to fix, explain, defend, or comfort. Log: 'Recruitment attempt detected.'
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What’s your default posture when tension escalates?
Soften your breath, ground your feet, lower your tone. Less movement, less expression. You become the still point in the storm.
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What do you say when someone starts oversharing to emotionally hook you?
'Thank you for sharing that. I’ll take a moment with it.' No promise to engage. No false intimacy.
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What phrase disarms someone escalating with you emotionally?
'I hear the intensity in this. I don’t need to add to it.'
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What’s a boundary phrase that doesn’t trigger more escalation?
'Let’s pause here. I want to stay grounded in this conversation.'
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What phrase resets power without sounding defensive?
'That’s one perspective. I’m holding another.'
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What do you do if someone keeps repeating emotionally charged narratives at you?
Slow your breathing. Use your inner mantra: 'Their story. Not my energy.' Hold eye contact softly and say: 'I’m hearing you. No action needed on my end right now.'
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What do you say if someone projects emotion onto you?
'I’m not feeling that internally, but I see how it might come across that way.' Calm, detached, unbothered.
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What phrase lets you walk away with zero emotional fallout?
'I need to let this settle on its own. I’ll return if it makes sense.'
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What’s your final internal lock phrase when exiting intensity?
'Energy sealed. Emotion logged. Frame preserved.'
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What is power mirroring?
Matching the emotional tone of a situation briefly—just enough to establish resonance—then gently leading it back to neutral.
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What phrase reflects emotion without absorbing it?
'That’s a lot to hold. I see it. I’m staying steady with it.'
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What’s a disruption phrase to stop an emotional spiral?
'Let’s not build more charge into this.' Simple. Clear. No invitation to keep spinning.
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What do you say to someone repeating themselves to manipulate?
'I’ve already heard you. Let’s not loop it.' Said calmly, not challengingly.
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What’s a neutral redirect when asked to agree with an emotional narrative?
'I’m hearing how important this is to you. I don’t share that experience, but I respect yours.'
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What phrase disrupts guilt-tripping without defensiveness?
'That’s one way to see it. It’s not how I operate.'
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What do you say when someone asks a leading or baited question?
'That’s an interesting angle. What’s behind the question?' Flips the frame without reacting.
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What phrase clears the field if things start to escalate?
'Let’s take the charge out of this.' Calm tone, zero accusation. Just disruption.
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What phrase helps you exit emotional conversation without drama?
'I’m not in a space to go deeper on that right now. I’d rather pause than force it.'
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What’s the final internal mantra to close any interaction cleanly?
'I kept my shape. I gave nothing away. I remain the frame.'