Human sexuality Flashcards
(39 cards)
What is genderlects
Coined by Deborah tannen, this term refers to the fundamental differences between the way men and women communicate.
Men-report
Women-rapport
Rapport vs report
Rapport- talk which establishes relationships and connections
Report- talk which impart knowledge
The two communication skills
Effectively oriented communication skils- comforting and involve a significant amount of listening
Instrumentally oriented communication skills- more persuasive and narrative
Low context culture vs high context culture
Low context- uses language to express thoughts, and feelings as directly as possible
High context- relies heavily on subtle and nobsrval cues in its communication
Important components in sexual communication
Positive self image
Self disclosure
Trust
Nonverbal Communication
Nonconstructive communication
Overgeneralizations- making statements that tend to exaggerate a particular issue
Name calling
Overkill- in which one person threatens the worst but doesn’t mean what they say
Conversation techniques that benefit a relationship
Active listening and nondefensive listening
Define vulva
The collective designation for the external genitalia of the female
made up of the following: mans veneris, labia majora and minora, the vestibule, the perineum, and clitoris
Define g spot
A structure that is said to lie on the Anterior (front) wall of the vagina and is reputed to be the seat of sexual pleasure
Define hymen
A thin fold of vascularity mucous membrane at the vaginal opening
Define Pre ejaculate fluid
a clear, mucus-like liquid that appears at the tip of the penis during sexual excitement. It is produced by the Cowper’s gland
Define perineum
Area between the vagina and the anus.
Define PIV
Penis-in-Vagina sex
What’s the function of the epididymis
Holds sperms during maturation; takes about 10 to 14 days
Reabsorps old and faulty sperms
What is the function of the van deferens
Carries sperms from the testicles, mixes it with other fluids from other glands and propels the sperms toward the urethra during ejaculation
What is the function of cowpers glands
Have ducts that open right into the urethra and produce a fluid that cleans and lubricated the urethra for the passage of sperm
What is the function of the ovaries
Female gonads that produce ova and sex hormones.
What is the function of the cervix
the cervix connects the vagina to the uterus. The hole is big enough to let sperm through into the uterus. Menstrual blood leaves the uterus through the cervix as well.
The cervix is also a sort of “roof” to your vagina and keeps tampons and other objects from getting lost in your body.
What is the function of the fimbriae
During ovulation, the fimbriae extend toward the ovaries and catch the released egg. The fimbriae then sweep the egg into the fallopian tube, where it can be fertilized.
The three goals of communication
- getting the job done
- maintaining the relationship
- managing our identity
benefits of good communication
an integral part of all healthy relationships, and couples who know how to communicate with each other are happier, more satisfied, and have a better chance of making their relationship last.
john Gottman’s research
a study done by John Gottman and colleagues found that same-sex couples were more positive than heterosexual couples when discussing areas of conflict in their relationships. Gottman believed this positivity could be due to the fact that same-sex couples tend to value equality more than heterosexual couples.
Future of sex
Instead of focusing primarily on what does not work in sexual relationships, such as problems with erections or orgasms, ongoing research may help us understand what does work and what keeps couples happy and satisfied.
advantages and disadvantages of case studies
Freud was famous for his use of this methodology. For example, he would study hysteria in only one patient because he didn’t have several patients with similar complaints.
This method does not allow researchers to generalize to the wider public because the sample size is small. Even so, the case study method may generate hypotheses that can lead to larger, generalizable studies