Chapter 10 Flashcards
(10 cards)
what are the three dimensions of love
intimacy
passion
commitment
what does love include
trust
caring
respect
loyalty
care for others
what types of opportunities do relationships offer
problems are not always a reflection of incompatibilty
healthy relationships are those that feel securely connected
open
non-judgemental
expressive
what are some challenges in relationships
unequal or premature commitment
unrealistic expectations
competitiveness
balancing time together and apart
jelousy
social support and connectedness
what are some things to do before and during a breakup
give the relationship a fair chance
be fair and honest
be compassionate and tactful
give time to resolve anger and pain if you are the one being rejected
recognize the value in the experience
what is non-verbal communication and some examples
when we are silent we are communicating, it is also the ability to interpret non-verbal messages (ensuring body language agrees with words)
examples: touch, eye contact, proximity
what are some advantages and disadvantages of digital communication
missing non-verbal cues (body language and tone of voice)
promoting an idealized version of oneself
checking phone rather than be present
publicizing areas of life
what are the three keys to good communication
self-disclosure
listening
feedback
what are the guidelines for handling conflict
clarify the issue
find out what each person wants
determine how you can both get what you want
decide how to negotiate
solidify the agreement
review and renegotiate
who do people who are choosing a partner tend to pair with
someone living in the same geographic area as them
someone from a similar racial, ethnic and social economic background
similar educational status and similar lifestyle
similar in perceived level of physical attractiveness
