Flashcards in Exam 2: counseling skills Deck (47)
family systems theory: families are _______
Owens, Marinella, & Metz 2015: a patient might spend __ hours a week with an SLP and __ awake hours with family
May 2013 dept. of labor: people __ years and older without disabilities= __% unemployment rate
May 2013 dept. of labor: people __ years and older with disabilities= __% unemployment rate
what kinds of contracts do marriages have?
verbal and nonverbal
what is dream when you get married?
live happily ever after
nice balance: personal life/career
be together forever
plenty of $$
factors in preserving marriage: when ____ is mild; tolerable substitutions made for lost activities; if well spouse is prone to nurturance, he/she ____
disability; easily slips into caregiver role
working with spouses: pay lots of attention to who?
well spouse- educate and support him/her
working with spouses: include spouse in what 2 areas?
assessment and treatment
working with spouses: let spouse ___; provide _____
vent; a support group
Cabon & Cohn 2012: if one spouse has a degenerative disease, the well spouse has to simultaneously do what 2 things?
take on extra burdens
promote sick spouse's independence as much as possible
working with parents: 2 most important variables in CH's improvement are parents' ____ and _____
personal qualities; strength of their marital relationship
working with parents: list some parents' personal qualities (7: a-t)
when a CH is born with a disability, ____ is most destructive to a marriage
term for: when parents fight over little, unrelated things
with guilt comes the _____
when a CH born with a disability, men are seen as the what?
(feel helpless and deny reality; may turn to affairs/work extra hours)
when a CH born with a disability, many women do what?
give parents permission to _____
take care of themselves
if parents are happy as ___ and ____, CH will be better off
research has found: families with higher ___ have more choices for coping/more varied support
research has found: greater stress: parents who felt that their caretaking responsibilities for disabled children took time away from ____
their spouse, other children, self
research: caring for a chronically sick/disabled child accelerated ____ in mothers
research: CH's ____ problems causes parents far more stress than child’s ____
behavior; cognitive delays
research: what is helpful in decreasing stress?
research: parents of disabled ____ experience more stress than parents of disabled ____
Naseef, NA, 2001 wrote a book about being father of severely autistic boy. he interviewed couples who had a disabled CH and found that men wanted women to understand they were _____ and ___ when they couldn't make things better
doing their best; frustrated
men wanted ____ with their wives as couples
more time alone
men wanted women to be more ____ and ____
rational, less emotional