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Cognitive theories

1. Top-down (focus)
- theories of thinking
2. Bottom-up
- specific situations

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Top-down theories

Thinking about the world and SWB

Epictetus
- Men are disturbed not by things. but by the views they take of them

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Bottom-up Theories

Events and circumstances influencing SWB

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Positivity Bias of Happy People

Sense of control, most others are good, the world is beautiful, sense of relative invulnerability, positive view of the world, optimistic about the future

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Optimists

Carver and Scheier
- enjoy better health, cope better with stress, less bp reactivity to stress, recover faster from bypass surgery, have less postpartum depression, have fewer symptoms during end semester

Vaillant
- Harvard grads 1946
- optimists healthier in 1980

So much in attitudes/outlook
- glass half-full or half-empty?

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AIM

Theory of thinking and happiness
1. Attention
2. Interpretation
3. Memory

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Attention

Classification into a group is enough
- ex. with in group vs. out group

Attention is selective- there are both good and bad things out there on which one can focus
- ex. gorilla experiment

Bryant- savoring
- happier people tend to have momentos handy (pictures on walls)
Lyobomirsky & Nolen-Hoeksema
- ruminating- thinking about the bad memories- makes us less happy

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Interpretation

Interpretation is different
- two people may see exact same event positively vs. negatively
ex. Dartmouth and Princeton football game

Good and bad things, unambiguous
Neutral things- Weiss scale
Small thins people say may be interpreted according to mood
- ex. small comment may be the tipping point

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Coping Strategies

Resilience
Research by Costa and McCrae

1. Happy people
- rational action, seeking help, self-adaptation, humor, faith

2. Unhappy people
- hostile reactions, escapist fantasies, wishful thinking, indecisiveness, self-blame

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Memory

Research
- colonoscopies, vacations, dating partner
- how you remember an event is predictor of whether you'll repeat it
- how you remember your mood with your partner determines if you will stay together

Memory is selective:
Bryant- savoring
- momentos handy, pictures on walls
Lyobomirsky & Nolen-Hoeksema
- ruminating and NA
ex. two drunk grad students at a party
- move on!
- unhappy people keep repeating the negative event, even though it serves no purpose

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Comparative Standards

When we react to events, we compare them to standards
- our goals and ideals
- social comparison- others
*our past- are we doing better or worse?
ex. income changes (10K to 40K, elated; 100K to 40K panicked)
- needs (relatively innate standards)

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Goals

Goals should be high but also realistic
- determined how we'll react to a situation
ex. Jon shoots for passing, gets a B- elated
June shoots for an A+, gets a B- disappointed and dissatisfied

Lofty goals can make us aim high but also be disappointed - dilemma

The goal is to do your best, be really good at what you're doing, to try hard
- in this case, success is in your control

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Social comparison

Can influence our satisfaction
- income- others in one's workplace
But many causes of SWM (love) are not comparative
Neurotics compare a lot
Social support crucial

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Relative income

Rich people are happier than poor people but the wealth of the country in general is also highly influential
- people that live in rich countries are happier

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Adaptation

Good and bad things happen, but the we adapt
- bad events- good to adapt
- good events- can react to new good events
Unemployment is the exception
- we never fully adapt
Declining marginal utility- a form of adaptation
- things decline in value as one gets more of them, each added unit is worth less for SWB

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Failure to adapt to where you live

Experience anger and depression vs. enjoyment

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Positive mental outlook

The habit of seeing the glass half full
Seeing opportunities, not threats
Generally trusting and liking oneself and others

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Negative mental outlook

- Awfulizing- people exaggerate how negative an event/person is
- distress intolerance- people underestimate their ability to recover from a painful event
- learned helplessness- people simply give up because they feel they have no power to change negative circumstances
- perfectionism- people strive to be faultless rather than just successful, pay more attention to the small details that went wrong than the big picture of everything that went right
- negative self-fulfilling expectancies- one draws negative responses from others by communicating that one expects a negative reaction
-rejection goggles- cause people to see rejection everywhere, even in normal encounters, even the most minor rejection can be seen as a major slight

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3 elements of self-compassion

Neff
1. self-kindness
- understanding, not punishment
2. sense of common humanity
- everybody goes through this
3. mindfulness
- neither ignoring nor exaggerating feelings of failure

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Automatic negative thoughts

can be traps
thoughts -> feelings -> situations

Restructuring
- catch yourself, be mindful, generate more realistic trap

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Thought traps

1. all of nothing
2. excuses
3. should've...
4. not as good
5. give up