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LESSON #1 4TH QUARTER AT LANTING To figure out the different kinds of personal relationships (39 cards)

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Your relationship during this stage is pretty much different from what you had when you
were still a child.

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Teenage relationship

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characterized by self-disclosure and your capacity to trust
others.

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Intimate or close relationships

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Is a state of connectedness between people (especially an emotional connection)

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Relationship

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Any form of relationship is said to be a?

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Two-way traffic.

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5
Q

are two attributes describing
personal relationships and level of commitment to another
person/s

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Privacy and Intimacy

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commitment to an organization
like a business entity, a principle or purpose

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Impersonal Relationship

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it is a force that unites people and can grow into an attachment which eventually leads to commitment

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Attraction

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Kinds of Relationships

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1.)Privacy and intimacy
2.)Impersonal relationships
3.)Attraction

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refers to the close connection between people, formed by emotional bonds and interactions.
These bonds often grow from and are strengthened by mutual experiences.

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Personal relationship

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CONCEPT OF PERSONAL RELATIONSHIP

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1.)Attraction
2.)Love
3.)Commitment

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The action or power of evoking interest, or liking someone or something: and a quality or feature that evokes desire

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Attraction

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Strong affection for another arising out of kinship or personal ties

  • attraction based on sexual desire:
  • affection and tenderness felt by lovers
  • affection based on admiration, benevolence, or common interest
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Love

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it is a force that unites people and can grow into and the attachment which eventually leads to commitment

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Attraction

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It refers to the feelings and actions that keep partners

working together to maintain the relationship

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Commitment

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9 THINGS THAT ARE
UNACCEPTABLE IN NY
RELATIONSHIP

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1.CHEATING
2.PUTTING YOUR OWN DOWN
3.NOT SUPPORTING YOUR DREAMS
4.CONTROLLING
5.LACK OF COMMUNICATION
6.UNRELIABILITY
7.FORGETTING THE MEMORABLE DAY
8.SELF-DESTRUCTION
9.NOT CARING ABOUT FRIENDS AND FAMILY

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TREE KINDS OF PERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS

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1.)Family
2.)Friends
3.)Romantic

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It is an essential component in any discussion of relationships, but this varies greatly from person to person

18
Q

This organization defines family as “two or more persons who are related by birth, marriage, or adoption and who live together as one household.

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Bureau of Census

19
Q

Some typical characteristics of a familyare

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-Support,
-Mutual trust,
-Regular interaction,
-Shared beliefs and values,
-Security,
-Sense of
community

20
Q

Can be thought of as a close tie
between two people that is
often built upon mutual
experience shared interests,
proximity, and emotional
bonding

21
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PARKER AND ASAHER( 1993)
TYPES OF FRIENDSHIP

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1.Acquaintances

2.Companions

3.Intimates or best friends

22
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ARTHUR (1999 )
TYPES OF PEER GROUPS

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Is an exclusive group of people who spend time together and do not readily allow others to join them.

24
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Is a gathering individuals that it’s impossible to know everyone personality.

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Formed to pursue a shared interest or purpose, and can feel and function like a community with similar likes, beliefs or convictions.
Crowd
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A narrow circle of friends.
Clique
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''it was found out that among girls, having friends as a source of social support is more common, compared with boys." Girls are more expressive than boys and usually show their intimacy by talking about personal matters; boys, on the other hand, show intimacy in non-verbal ways
Furman (1999),
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including marriage, are close relationships formed between two people that are built upon affection, trust, intimacy, and romantic love
Romantic Partnership
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We usually experience this kind of relationship with only one person at a time.
Romantic relationship
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WAYS ON HOW ATTRACTION TO SOMEONE IS EXPRESSED
Inspiration (CORRECT) Distraction (WRONG)
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ACCEPTABLE WAYS TO EXPRESS YOUR ATTRACTION
Offer the gift of listening Say please and thank you Tell your loved ones how much you love and appreciate them Offer to help someone’s need Write a letter or send a card to someone you love and mail it Practice the art of forgiveness Write your love ones a poem of gratitude
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UNACCEPTABLE WAYS TO EXPRESS YOUR ATTRACTION
-Acting that you own him/her -Acting weird when you are with him -Stalk him/her on social media -Obsession
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People engaged in romantic relationships experience a special type of feeling called
LOVE
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are commonly observed among adolescents who are involved in girl and boy relationships.
Romantic relationships
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3 PHASES OF ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS ( STEINBERG )
1.Discovery of interest 2.Dating 3.Commitment
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Is mysterious; A powerful feeling that allows you to sacrifice your own happiness for the sake of others.
Love
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“the person’s ability to extend himself/herself for the purpose of nurturing one’s own or another’s spiritual growth”.
(Scott Peck, 1978)
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WAYS TO BECOME RESPONSIBLE IN A RELATIONSHIP
1.Clarify your boundaries. 2.Learn to communicate. 3.Invest in an “emotional bank account” 4.Learn to forgive others. 5.Consult professionals.
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EXPRESSIONS OF LOVE & COMMITMENT saying?
Love is a choice Love involves trust & commitment