Relationships Flashcards
(33 cards)
What are some factors in relationship formation?
need for affiliation
proximity / similarity
reciprocity
disclosure
physical attractiveness
Berschied and Reis (1998) - varibales associated with loneliness
dispositional factors
social circumstance
social cognitive tendencies
What is assortative mating?
people with similar traits are more likely to pair up e.g background and personality
Roberts (2018) - proximity + similarity for eldery
two factors may be important for elder men and women living in residential care
What is the gain loss hypothesis?
we like those the most who initially dislike us but then start to like us
we dislike those who initially like us but then become cold and distant
What is premature disclosure?
revealing details and information too early
What is dishonest disclosure?
intentionally withholding or misrepresenting information
What is factual disclosure?
revealing accurate and verifiable info
Laurenceau, Barrett and Rovine (2005) - self disclosure predicts what?
self disclosure predicts partner responsiveness which depicts stronger feelings of closeness
Kudo and Simkin (2003) interviews with japanese students findings?
found factors impacting on development of friendship was: frequent contact
similarity
self disclosure
Bleske-Rechek & Lighthall (2010) - attractiveness in friends
friends tend to be of similar attractiveness
What are some factors in relationship maintenance?
signalling commitment
shared activities
support
intimacy process model
interpreting information
forgiveness
What is an example of failing to display appropriate signals of commitment?
forgetting a birthday
more detrimental to romantic relationship than friendship
What is the self expansion model?
people have motivation to expand their sense of self by incorporating the resources and identities of others
Reissman et al (1993) - shared activities
say shared activities can lead to relationship satisfaction
What is the intimacy process model? (Reis and Shaver, 1988)
intimacy develops within relationship through a dynamic process of self disclosure and perception of partners positive response to that disclosure
information processing in a relationship
same events may be interpreted very differently by different people
Felmless (1995) - fatal attraction phenomenon
qualities that are initially attractive in a partner become same qualities that end relationship
McFarland and Ross (1987) - memories in relationships
memories of past feeling are distorted by current feelings about a relationship
Long distance relationships (Kelmer et al, 2013)
LDRs typically report higher levels of dedication, relationship quality, trust and commitment
Disclosure and long distance (Jiang and Hancock, 2013)
LDRs appear to engage in more adaptive self disclosure which may promote intimacy
Who experienced a greater decline in emotional well-being in pandemic (Yang and ma, 2020)
married people over unmarried people
What was there an increase in following the pandemic? (Prasso, 2020)
increased number of filings for divorce
What percentage of people reported positive changes in relationship satisfaction during pandemic? (Schmid, 2021)
20%