Relationships Flashcards

(33 cards)

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What are some factors in relationship formation?

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need for affiliation
proximity / similarity
reciprocity
disclosure
physical attractiveness

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Berschied and Reis (1998) - varibales associated with loneliness

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dispositional factors
social circumstance
social cognitive tendencies

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What is assortative mating?

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people with similar traits are more likely to pair up e.g background and personality

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Roberts (2018) - proximity + similarity for eldery

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two factors may be important for elder men and women living in residential care

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What is the gain loss hypothesis?

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we like those the most who initially dislike us but then start to like us
we dislike those who initially like us but then become cold and distant

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What is premature disclosure?

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revealing details and information too early

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What is dishonest disclosure?

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intentionally withholding or misrepresenting information

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What is factual disclosure?

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revealing accurate and verifiable info

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Laurenceau, Barrett and Rovine (2005) - self disclosure predicts what?

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self disclosure predicts partner responsiveness which depicts stronger feelings of closeness

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Kudo and Simkin (2003) interviews with japanese students findings?

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found factors impacting on development of friendship was: frequent contact
similarity
self disclosure

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Bleske-Rechek & Lighthall (2010) - attractiveness in friends

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friends tend to be of similar attractiveness

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What are some factors in relationship maintenance?

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signalling commitment
shared activities
support
intimacy process model
interpreting information
forgiveness

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What is an example of failing to display appropriate signals of commitment?

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forgetting a birthday
more detrimental to romantic relationship than friendship

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What is the self expansion model?

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people have motivation to expand their sense of self by incorporating the resources and identities of others

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Reissman et al (1993) - shared activities

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say shared activities can lead to relationship satisfaction

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What is the intimacy process model? (Reis and Shaver, 1988)

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intimacy develops within relationship through a dynamic process of self disclosure and perception of partners positive response to that disclosure

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information processing in a relationship

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same events may be interpreted very differently by different people

18
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Felmless (1995) - fatal attraction phenomenon

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qualities that are initially attractive in a partner become same qualities that end relationship

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McFarland and Ross (1987) - memories in relationships

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memories of past feeling are distorted by current feelings about a relationship

20
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Long distance relationships (Kelmer et al, 2013)

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LDRs typically report higher levels of dedication, relationship quality, trust and commitment

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Disclosure and long distance (Jiang and Hancock, 2013)

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LDRs appear to engage in more adaptive self disclosure which may promote intimacy

22
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Who experienced a greater decline in emotional well-being in pandemic (Yang and ma, 2020)

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married people over unmarried people

23
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What was there an increase in following the pandemic? (Prasso, 2020)

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increased number of filings for divorce

24
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What percentage of people reported positive changes in relationship satisfaction during pandemic? (Schmid, 2021)

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What percentage of people reported negative changes in relationship satisfaction during pandemic? (Schmid, 2021)
40%
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Stanley and Markman's (2020) 3 strategies therapists can use to help couples
- make it safe to connect - do your part - decide, don't slide
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What are some issues that leads to relationship dissolution?
partner fails to meet expectations desire for freedom love isn't reciprocated
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Levinger (1980) 4 factors indicating end of relationship
new life seems to be only solution alternative partners available expectation that relationship will fail lack of commitment to continuing relationship
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Collins and Goliath (2012) break up strategies questionnaire
personality predicts selection of break up strategy e.g women high on machiavellianism are more likely to use manipulation
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What are some break up strategies?
avoidance / withdrawal open confrontation manipulation distant communication
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Duck (1988) relationship dissolution model (stages)
intrapsychic phase dyadic phase social phase grave-dressing phase
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Sprecher et al (1998) - consequences of dissolution
those initiating the breakup report lower levels of distress after the break up
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Griffith et al (2017) - reasons for staying with an ex
security practical civility unresolved romantic issues