Test 3 Flashcards
(83 cards)
“I like your body”
Passionate
“You can be useful to me”
Game-Playing
“I like you (your qualities and characteristics)”
Friendship
“You and I together just make sense”
Logical
“You belong to me”
Possessive
“Together we are more than either one apart”
Selfless
Goal: A trophy mate
Passionate
Goal: Self Interests
Game-Playing
Goal: Compatibility
Logical
Goal: Security
Possessive
Goal: Mutual Fulfillment
Selfless
Goal: Companionship
Friendship
Early attraction
Physical Preferences
Intense Emotions
Passionate
Commitment avoided
Deception Acceptable
Manipulation Practiced
Game-Playing
Evolves Slowly
Shared Interests
Public Expectations
Friendship
Rational Process
Preferred Attributes
Criteria Matching
Logical Love
Symptom Love
Uncertainty of Self
Lack of Trust
Possessive Love
Mutual Regard/Respect
Patient Confidence
Resilient Strength
Selfless Love
The component of love that encompasses feelings of closeness, affection, and connectedness
intimacy component
The component of love that comprises the motivational drives relating to sex, physical closeness, and romance comprises the motivational drives relating to sex, physical closeness, and romance
passion component
The component of love that embodies both the initial cognition that one loves another person and the longer-term determination to maintain that love
Decision/commitment component
Nonlove
Intimacy: Absent
Passion: Absent
Decision/Commitment: Absent
Liking
Intimacy: Present
Passion: Absent
Decision/Commitment: Absent
Infatuated Love
Focused on Psychical
Intimacy: Absent
Passion: Present
Decision/Commitment: Absent