Flashcards in Parenting & Personality Influence Deck (18):
What 2 dimensions of parenting have researchers found that influence children's personality development?
warmth versus hostility
permissive versus restrictive
How does the optimal parenting style rate on these two dimensions?
High on warmth and somewhere in the middle between overly permissive and overly restrictive
How many parenting style do the experts distinguish between?
What are the four parenting style experts (Baumrind et al) distinguish between?
What are authoritative parents like and how do they control their children?
They are very warm and nurturant and control their children by explaining rules and decisions.
Children of which kinds of parents have the best outcomes?
Parental behavior is
One of the environmental variables known to have strong impact on children's personality development
Describe "warmth" and "hostility"
Warmth = affectionate, regularly puts child's needs first, enthusiastic about child's activities, responds to child with empathy & sensitivity
Hostility = quick to criticize, rarely shows affection, overtly rejecting
How does coming from warm families affect children?
More securely attached during 1st 2 years of life, higher self-esteem & IQs, & more empathetic & altruistic
Describe "restrictiveness" and "permissiveness"
Restrictiveness = highly controlling & demanding & expect unwavering obedience to their rules; children tend to be obedient & timid & have difficulty establishing close relationships
Permissive = few rules, make few demands, & let children make their own decisions; children are thoughtless toward others & only moderately independent
What is the optimal parenting style on restrictiveness/permissive continuum?
Falls in middle of range
Set high standards & expect children to comply w/their rules; gain control by explaining rules & seeking children's input into family decisions; very warm & nurturant; children have best outcomes & are usually independent, achievement-oriented, friendly, & self-confident
Controlling, demanding, & expect children to accept their demands in unquestioning way; when children disobedient, parents likely to respond in punitive ways; children are often insecure, timid, unhappy, & grow up to be dependent & lacking in motivation
Though nurturant & accepting, fail to assert their authority; children go to bed whenever they want to, watch as much TV as they like, etc.; children of permissive parents have difficulty controlling their impulses, ignore rules & regulations, & are not very involved in academic and work activities
Undemanding & indifferent to or rejecting of their children; display little commitment to being parents & keep children at a distance; children are often noncompliant & demanding, lack self-control, & prone to antisocial bx; characteristics of uninvolved parents (e.g., weak parental supervision, lack of reasonable rules, lax or erratic discipline, parent-child relationship characterized by hostility, indifference, apathy) are those most predictive of delinquency in adolescence
What did Baumrind find in her longitudinal studies about parenting styles?
Authoritative style has most positive outcome; it is characterized by high levels of emotional support or responsiveness & firmness/high standards or demands on children;
What are children of authoritative parents like?
More self-confident, independent, friendly, & achievement-oriented; recent study of college students found authoritative style is most predictive of higher academic achievement measured by students' grades, confidence, persistence, task involvement, & rapport w/teachers