Chapter 11 Notes Flashcards
basic tenet of existentialism is
- process and growth are more important than product and stagnation
- existentialists oppose the artificial split between subject and object.
- stress people’s search for meaning in their lives
- each of us is responsible for who we are and what we will become. Can’t blame parents
- anti-theoretical position, believing that theories tend to objectify people
- People have an equal degree of both freedom and responsibility (people frequently run away both from making choices and from assuming responsibility.)
Dasein
being-in-the-world
Three modes of being-in-the-world are:
Umwelt
Mitwelt
Eigenwelt
Umwelt
one’s relationship with the
world of things
Mitwelt
one’s relationship with the world of people
Eigenwelt
one’s relationship with oneself
an awareness of the possibility of one’s not
being, through death or loss of awareness is called
Nonbeing, or nothingness
Best to face up to death and realize that non-being is part of being
when they are aware of the possibility of their nonbeing as well as when they are aware that they are free to choose, people experience:
anxiety
2 kinds of anxiety
normal
neurotic
People experience ontological guilt as a result of their
(1) separation from the natural world (umwelt)
(2) inability to judge the needs of others (mitwelt)
(3) denial of their own potentials. (eigenwelt)
the underlying structure that gives meaning to experience and allows people to make decisions about the future is called
Intentionality
taking delight in the presence of the other person and affirming that person’s value as much as one’s own is
love
Existential freedom is
freedom of action/doing, freedom to move about, to pursue tangible goals
can’t do from jail
Essential freedom is
freedom of being, freedom to think, to plan, to hope
can do from jail
Cultural myths are
belief systems, both conscious and unconscious, that provide explanations for personal and social problems
Forms of Love
sex, eros, philia and agape
sex
Sex is the desire to experience pleasure
Used to be natural and now has all kinds of baggage in terms of guilt
eros
Seeks procreation or creation through an enduring union with someone, not to be confused with sex, which often times it is
philia
intimate nonsexual friendship between two people
takes time to grow, to develop, to sink its roots
friendship in simplest terms
eros is built on the foundation of Philia
agape
Philia depends on Agape
Esteem for the others welfare beyond any gain
The love of god for man Altruistic
Underserved or unconditional
Healthy adult relationships
blend all four forms of love
Based on sex satisfaction, a desire for enduring union, genuine friendship and concern for the welfare of the other
Oedipus story is a powerful myth in our
culture because it contains:
1) birth
2) separation or exile from parents and home,
3) sexual union with one parent and hostility toward the other
4) the assertion of independence and the search for identity, and
5) death
May’s concept of myths is comparable to Carl Jung’s idea of:
collective unconscious in that myths are archetypal patterns in the human experience; they are avenues
to universal images that lie beyond individual experience
When people deny their destiny or abandon their myths
they lose their purpose for being; they become directionless. Without some goal or destination, people become sick and engage in a variety of self-defeating and self destructive behaviors
erect a variety of neurotic symptoms, not to regain their freedom, but to renounce it.